Hypergamy and Dating Fears
Eye Contact
Everyone is wanting you to fail, except…
If you’re broken you can’t be happy.
Do you want to be successful with women, for real?
My Love Story
Feeling Emotions in Dating
Inferiority in Dating Feelings
I didn’t grew up in America so I never had the bully that comes with nerdiness. Still I had to find outlets for my geek because my friends were into things that were completely uninteresting to me. I even had an intervention at college because I was making my herd look bad by not dressing up and wearing make up and heels. I almost drop them all right there. So yeah this nerdy thing is like a sexual orientation we don’t have much choice in it we just deal with the others the best we can. If is working in Best Buy so be it, YMMV.
How do we get women to understand that men don’t think that way? We find drama tedious (I am putting that extremely mildly). We find talking about problems that we have no interest in solving – pointless and irritating. Seriously, you could make a lot of money telling men how to get their women to understand this…
Look for someone that is low drama herself and a problem solver. She will get sick of hearing herself whining and cut contact with the bitches before you get off the rails. That is what I do. I also never start DRAMA! because I enjoy my boring peaceful life too much, the only exception is when I get into something and married to a nerd it comes with the territory so that is kind of a different type of DRAMA!.
I also can’t write when I’m worried so I try to keep my real world as a sanctuary. The demons in my head offer enough DRAMA! thank you very much.
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Swithunus says:
July 8, 2013 at 12:41 pm
@Ted
Eye Contact
Everyone is wanting you to fail, except…
If you’re broken you can’t be happy.
Do you want to be successful with women, for real?
My Love Story
Feeling Emotions in Dating
Inferiority in Dating Feelings
I didn’t grew up in America so I never had the bully that comes with nerdiness. Still I had to find outlets for my geek because my friends were into things that were completely uninteresting to me. I even had an intervention at college because I was making my herd look bad by not dressing up and wearing make up and heels. I almost drop them all right there. So yeah this nerdy thing is like a sexual orientation we don’t have much choice in it we just deal with the others the best we can. If is working in Best Buy so be it, YMMV.
How do we get women to understand that men don’t think that way? We find drama tedious (I am putting that extremely mildly). We find talking about problems that we have no interest in solving – pointless and irritating. Seriously, you could make a lot of money telling men how to get their women to understand this…
Look for someone that is low drama herself and a problem solver. She will get sick of hearing herself whining and cut contact with the bitches before you get off the rails. That is what I do. I also never start DRAMA! because I enjoy my boring peaceful life too much, the only exception is when I get into something and married to a nerd it comes with the territory so that is kind of a different type of DRAMA!.
I also can’t write when I’m worried so I try to keep my real world as a sanctuary. The demons in my head offer enough DRAMA! thank you very much.
136
Swithunus says:
July 8, 2013 at 12:41 pm
@Ted