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This \u2014 the effort \u2014 is probably what it is about what Nas \u201crepresents\u201d that connects with me in a way that doesn\u2019t with Jay-Z. Basically, Jigga\u2019s a chess player, a person who doesn\u2019t seem to do or say anything without processing the dozen or so moves that will come afterwards. While this has definitely helped him craft the best career any rapper has ever had and become a true \u201cbusiness, man,\u201d there\u2019s a certain tinge of inauthenticity that permeates much of what he says and does. Jay-Z may in fact be a \u201crealer\u201d person than Nas, but Nas\u2019 penchant for artistic implusivity makes him feel realer.\r\n\r\nAnd, despite the fact that it\u2019s pandering, saccharin, cringe-worthy, awkward, and f*cking annoying, \u201dDaughters\u201d is a real song. 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Even if this is true, though, this feeling comes from a genuine place, a real place, and it\u2019s understandable and laudable.\r\n","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-12-03","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-12-03","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ModernLoveModernLonelinessNavigatingThe","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-03 17:40:40","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-03 17:40:40","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-12-03\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-12-03\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ModernLoveModernLonelinessNavigatingThe\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-03 17:40:40\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-03 17:40:40\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?ModernLoveModernLonelinessNavigatingThe"},"BlindDateRulesToLiveBy":{"bf_titre":"Blind Date Rules To Live By","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49yWLYK How Pocket-Dialing Can C*ckblock You]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g8Sg9R Attack of The Killer Ex]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ORrrL8 How To Deal With A Psycho Ex During The Holidays]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DfapnV Attention Mongers Crybabies and Dramaheads]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DadqpB 25 Signals You\u0027re Not Ready For a Online Dating]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gcYLIz 5 Skills Every Man And Woman Should Master]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49z3q5i Can Sex Be A Laughing Matter?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gbh8xB The Sh*t Women Say That Piss Off Men]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49BHSF9 Dating a Jersey Shore Fan]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gaO7lT Dealing With Exes on Valentine\u2019s Day]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OXBtdG A Decent Girl For a Nice Guy]]\r\n\r\nEven if you\u2019ve already met a potential partner through adult personals, your first meeting will still stand as a so-called \u201cblind date\u201d. And as far as blind dates are concerned, certain precarious must be made in order to ensure it runs as smoothly as possible. With that in mind, I have compiled a list of a few rules of thumb everyone should be following when meting a stranger for the first time. Not only will it guarantee your safety, but a successful outcome to boot.\r\n\r\n1. The Venue \u2013 As most of you already know, a blind date should always be held in a public place. However, that doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll be pressed for options. Aside from the usual restaurant or coffee shop, you can also showcase your smarts by going to an art gallery, museum or even a flea market. Keep it simple and you won\u2019t run the risk of disappointing your date with your selection.\r\n\r\n2. The Dress Code \u2013 While I shouldn\u2019t have to say that you must always dress to impress, it\u2019s important to establish the fine balance between looking good and not trying too hard. Instead of wearing a short skirt and putting your cleaving in full display, highlight only one of your best features and keep him guessing with the rest.\r\n\r\n3. Be Yourself \u2013 Yes, I know I probably sound like a broken record at this point, but I can\u2019t say this enough times. Too many people are guilty of trying too hard to impress by a acting like someone else. Remember that one of the keys to a successful relationship is getting the person to like you for exactly who you are. Pretending to be someone else is bound to come out in the future.\r\n\r\n4. Conversation Starters - Instead of ranting about your own interests, try to find a mutual topic of conversation that you can both contribute to. Whether its a common hobby or current events, a good conversation should always go back and fourth and not be limited to only one person.\r\n\r\n5. Play It Safe \u2013 Remember this ground rule that everyone should follow on any given date: let someone know exactly where you\u2019ll be and when. If for some reasons things go wrong, you can rest assured knowing that someone will come back for you. Providing them with a link to the persons online dating profile is also a good idea.","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-12-13","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-12-13","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"BlindDateRulesToLiveBy","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-13 11:00:36","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-13 11:00:36","user":"2405:9800:b540:afb4:d12f:48a8:b107:e9f4","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-12-13\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-12-13\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022BlindDateRulesToLiveBy\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-13 11:00:36\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-13 11:00:36\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?BlindDateRulesToLiveBy"},"TheLoveHateRelationshipWithValentinesDay":{"bf_titre":"The Love-Hate Relationship with Valentine\u2019s Day","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BDqpzx The Wingwoman]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VEN84T Change You Can Believe In: Yourself]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VJDLkO Quick to Pass Judgment]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41z2ZGa Why Some People Hate Valentine\u2019s Day]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41GcK5f I\u2019m Single on Valentine\u2019s Day]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Eo164 My Secret Social Identity]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49MGdNc What Exactly Is Dating? It\u2019s Ambiguous.]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41DssOE Why Love Is Not a First Sight Thing]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Ge48n Chivalry Makes Women Feel Good]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Bz0sRH Relationship Experts: Hate The Player Or The Game?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41ABtbl The Double Standard of Men and Women]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VGO20U The Double Standard of Men and Women]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BmqveY The Double Standard of Men and Women]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41A5KHe 8 Ways to Make a Guy Not Want to Sleep with You]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VGgYGr 8 Ways to Make a Woman NOT Want to Sleep with You]]\r\n\r\n\r\n@Joanne - I cosign on your list, especially the kids. I understand why women say that kids are dealbreakers. If you get super serious with that person, they are basically leading a dual life and you will have to share a part of them forever. I may concede on one kid. 2 or more?? Return to sender. I also see you hate metrosexuals, lmao!\r\n\r\n@Deal Me Out - Great list!\r\n\r\nFor #5 - When a dude\u2019s been seriously hurt, it\u2019s hard to get that past out of your head. You personally may not be blamed, but the situation will cause a dude to be more cautios. This is easier to overcome though, because eventually all men have to suck it up [||] and get over it! you should never let the BS that an ex does mortgage your future with the next woman!\r\n\r\n#3 - There\u2019s a fine line between conceit and confidence, but a big difference between habitual line steppers and habitual line breakers! Recognizing the two is the challenge.\r\n\r\nDEAL ME OUT, on February 5th, 2009 at 6:57 pm Said:\r\n#3: VERY TRUE!!! but i try to stay away from those type of people as best as i can. The best way to go about it is to surround yourself with down to earth people.\r\n\r\n#5: Im not saying that sometimes you might second guess it or be more cautious because thats what you receive from a lesson learned and thats the way you should go about it. Yea you might question, why me? but at the end of the day be confident in who you are, know what you bring to the table and understand that it was her mistake.\r\n\r\nIf you progress with negative thoughts of a women and cant seem to look at relationships the same way then your not ready to get into another one. Times of reflections are the most beneficial moments in a persons life. Dont treat it like a stereotype, all men\/women arent the same.\r\n\r\nstreetztalk, on February 5th, 2009 at 7:20 pm Said:\r\nVery true @ your answer to #5 - Just giving some insight into how ment think ya know?\r\n\r\n","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-12-19","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-12-19","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheLoveHateRelationshipWithValentinesDay","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-19 10:36:06","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-19 10:36:06","user":"2405:9800:b540:afb4:c149:471b:b435:16f0","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-12-19\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-12-19\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheLoveHateRelationshipWithValentinesDay\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-19 10:36:06\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-19 10:36:06\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?TheLoveHateRelationshipWithValentinesDay"},"ThePsychologyOfPreferencesAreYourDating":{"bf_titre":"The Psychology of Preferences: Are Your Dating Standards Too Rigid?","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DyCtCX Questioning Dating Perferences]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a0qKcm Jaded About Dating]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49ZPRfm Endless Evidence Gathering]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49W3HiX Snooping on a Partner]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a6mcRS Interracial Dating And Relationships]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DCWdFv Why Do You Want to Be in a Relationship?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BNvt4w Being Really Smart Can Work Against A Woman]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49YqEBT Flexibility in Modern Relationships]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DDjFlQ \u0022Till Death Do Us Part\u0022]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a0bE6H Assembly Line of Hot]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a1kfWz The Art of Selective Truths in Dating]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gASzdA Warning Signs on the First Date]]\r\n\r\n\r\nHow can you find joy and satisfaction now, as you are? Not only is this attractive to other healthy, intelligent, creative people, but it\u0027s also an attractive way to live, period. But in my experience, it seems to require being ok with not knowing a lot. With learning to balance intelligent effort with some form of faith that it will all work out in the end.\r\n\r\nWe could blame our fathers, who could blame their fathers, but what good would that do?\r\n\r\nWe could blame feminism, organized women\u0027s groups, \u0022uppity\u0022 sisters,\u0022 numerous other things female-associated, but that would mostly be projection.\r\n\r\nI have grown up, worked in, and sometimes played in spaces where the majority of people around were women. Or genderqueer. In fact, I believe that I have often gravitated towards these spaces because whatever their weaknesses, the people present have often been willing to be vulnerable, willing to openly question and challenge not only the \u0022big\u0022 social problems of the day, but the very structure and function of gender itself.\r\n\r\nHow many men can handle other men crying in their presence? How many men are willing to speak about feeling hopeless, powerless, confused, or lost in the presence of other men?\r\n\r\nIn the 1980s and 90s, the Men\u0027s Movement started to open these doors. Some of the groups that developed during that time continue to meet today. And certainly, some powerful connections have been made between men as a result.\r\n\r\nHowever, I\u0027m convinced that lure of the status quo, the sweet lull of safety coupled with the loud excitement of power, played a large role in the degeneration of the momentum of the Men\u0027s movement. Too many guys, somewhere inside themselves, as well as together, decided they wanted to remain \u0022guys.\u0022 That the \u0022old boys network\u0022 needed to continue, even if in a reduced, more covert role.\r\n\r\nMore and more, I am learning how to accept where people are at. Where I am at. And at the same time, to take a step towards liberation, and do my best to plant seeds for others to do the same.\r\n\r\nI actually don\u0027t know what it looks like exactly to be a liberated man. A liberated woman. A liberated trans-person. Occasionally, I meet someone or hear about someone who might fit the bill. And yet, for each of us, it will probably look a little bit different.\r\n","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2025-01-02","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2025-01-02","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ThePsychologyOfPreferencesAreYourDating","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:37:28","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:37:28","user":"2405:9800:b540:afb4:ac94:988f:5561:33b2","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222025-01-02\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222025-01-02\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ThePsychologyOfPreferencesAreYourDating\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:37:28\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:37:28\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?ThePsychologyOfPreferencesAreYourDating"},"ANewTrickForGettingWomen":{"bf_titre":"A New \u201cTrick\u201d For Getting Women","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h3MvdW Should Single Guys Use Emoticons]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3EiEFyw Leaving the Ghosts of an Ex Behind]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4haQ6Ho Bitchiness as a Defense Mechanism: Lessons from Blogging About My Ex]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h52uZq Can You be Friends With an Ex?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gdcbUr The Men We Know We Have No Future With\u2026]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ocvJY Men Who Ghost Before the First Date]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40sSTUX No Strings Attached is Bullshit.]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Wvgp2u Do Women Really Want Equality In Relationships?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40xMbx9 Your Best Friend the Hag]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40vx4Eb Why Being Single Doesn\u2019t Suck]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40qt4oJ Rules For Hanging Out With Your Ex]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gaFyGD How to Approach Guys in a Bar]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40r6vjH How NOT to Approach A Guy In A Bar]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40r6wUN 8 Facts about Cheating]]\r\n\r\nWe\u2019ve all seen them. We\u2019ve heard all about them. We may have even fallen for their schtick.\r\n\r\nJust who exactly who am I speaking about?\r\n\r\nThe pick-up artists, that\u2019s who.\r\n\r\nSure, it\u2019s compelling, being able to woo some poor nubile damsel in the express lane of your local grocer\u2026or being the one guy to actually succeed in bagging that hot blonde that just suckered 15 of the other schmucks out of their hard earned drinking money.\r\n\r\nMy question is, who are these guys who teach this stuff, and why is it that almost every one of them teaches gimmicks, trickery, manipulation and a whole lot more of the things that moves the so-called pupil farther and farther from who they really are?\r\n\r\nWouldn\u2019t it be better to just be the very best version of your self, then let that light shine forth?\r\n\r\nA little while ago, I happened on a book that teaches Women all sorts of deceptions, little white lies and such..all in the name of bagging a man, then hauling him off to the altar. At first, I thought, how horrible to have such a product teach women to trick us into being with them. Then I was shocked to see that there were just as many books and programs teaching guys to get women.\r\n\r\nThis discovery got me thinking\u2026Big Time!! Why are men being taught that techniques are the way to attract women?\r\n\r\nIf so many of these programs exist, then there must be a real need for coaching guys, not to be pick-up artists per se, but rather to have the confidence, poise, and sense of self, so that women will be magnetically drawn to them.\r\n\r\nThere\u2019s a lot of talk about attraction, self confidence, and women. More often than not, the \u201cguru\u201d shells out some cookie cutter program designed to turn Joe Shy-Guy into Daniel Dynamite at the flick of his magic wand. Usually Joe Shy-Guy ends up more frustrated than ever.\r\n\r\nWhy do you suppose this is?\r\n\r\nWell first of all, not all women find the same things attractive, and let\u2019s not fool ourselves here\u2026there are just gonna be some women that aren\u2019t buying what you\u2019re selling, no matter how good the presentation.\r\n\r\nI\u2019ve personally seen world class athletes, singers, movie stars and the like get shut down cold. And who among the weak-at-heart could possibly compare with that kind of readily installed super confidence?\r\n\r\nThe point I\u2019m making here is that when a man that has done the internal work on himself, His light shines brightly, like a beacon of attraction that women will find unbelievably irresistible.\r\n\r\nNo lines needed. No trickery. No manipulation. No acting. Nothing but the very best version of yourself!!!!!\r\n\r\nWe\u2019ve got work to do guys\u2026.Let\u2019s dig in.","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-30","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-30","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ANewTrickForGettingWomen","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-30 10:13:40","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-30 10:13:40","user":"2405:9800:b540:afb4:35ed:c621:c606:d89e","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-30\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-30\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ANewTrickForGettingWomen\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-30 10:13:40\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-30 10:13:40\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?ANewTrickForGettingWomen"},"SheDidnTReplyShouldIMessageHerAgain":{"bf_titre":"She didn\u0027t reply. Should I message her again?","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42AdWYF Can You Date A Younger Man?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40MAkMZ The Qualities Of A Good Make Out Buddy]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40NwR0D When Guys Should Pay On A Date And Why]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42um78v Playing Games When Dating]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hb1WRN How to Hit on Someone via Facebook]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hw6Ok3 What Not To Say On A First Date?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40Mg2Dc Why Hasn\u0027t He Called and What Should I Do About It?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40NwROb Getting Prepped for a First Date]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hrE6ki Defriending Your Ex On Facebook]]\r\n\r\nIn, \u0022It\u0027s All About The Follow Up\u0022, Laurie Davis explains that sometimes it\u0027s ok to message someone a second time if they haven\u0027t replied to you yet.  I completely agree.  In fact, I have a personal success story about this.\r\n\r\n\r\nI was on plenty of fish and a cute and interesting girl messaged me first.  I replied, but didn\u0027t get a response.  So, just like the article suggests, I waited a about a week and sent her another message.  It said something along the lines of, \u0022Why didn\u0027t you reply? You messaged me first\u0022.\r\n\r\nI\u0027m paraphrasing, of course.  I was more diplomatic about it in the real message.  But, she replied the second time and explained that my message got lost in the mail.  Eventually we started dating.  And, it all started because I politely reminded her that I exist.\r\n\r\n\r\nSo, despite the many profiles I see that claim \u0022no reply = no interest\u0022, you might as well try.  What\u0027s the worst that can happen?  \r\n\r\n\r\nHere are some tips to remember when writing a no-reply follow-up:\r\nDon\u0027t sound desperate.  In other words, don\u0027t beg for a reply or look pathetic.  It\u0027s a turn off.\r\nDon\u0027t be angry.  It\u0027s not a great second impression.  I know I\u0027ve forgotten to reply to an email here and there at work because my inbox gets full.  The same thing happens to females on these dating sites.  They get 20+ messages a day and by the time they\u0027ve read the last one, they\u0027ve forgotten the first.  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This is what I call, \u201cfriendlationships\u201d\u2014where you get all of the benefits of a romantic relationship, without having the actual commitment to each other.\r\n\r\nYou could say that the guys just liked Anna as a friend and nothing more\u2014which is always a possibility, but Anna\u2019s a catch! She\u2019s beautiful, intelligent, athletic, witty, loves sports and she has a killer golf swing. She\u2019s the ultimate ideal girlfriend for any guy\u2014but she would always find herself with these guys who were half-in or couldn\u0027t make up their mind.\r\n\r\nAnna and I\u2019s reoccurring conversation would always circle around this topic: Why don\u2019t guys just come out and say what they\u2019re thinking? 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We had to leave the club we were at early and she wound up throwing up in my homeboy\u2019s car.  I got my boy to drive us back to my car, so I could take GC home and put her to bed.  We were staying with one of GC\u2019s friends, so she hands me her phone so I can call her friend to get her to open the gate for us.   We open the gate and get back in the house.    GC is hunched over one toilet puking\u2026 and I go to the other restroom to take a piss.\r\n\r\nI still have GC\u2019s phone in my pocket, but I think nothing of it\u2026. Then it vibrates and beeps.  New text message.  I look.  It\u2019s a dude.   Who the fuck is this dude texting my girl this late at night?  I think to myself and out of sheer curiosity I look through the text thread.\r\n\r\nAnd I\u2019m shocked\u2026..\r\n\r\nIt reads like this\u2026 they met a couple of weeks ago, presumably at a bar.  GC set up a time and place to meet the dude \u2013 at a place where I had taken her for one of our first dates.  She tells him she has a boyfriend.  They meet anyway.  The next day the texts read, from GC, \u201cOmg.  That wasn\u2019t supposed to happen last night.  How is it you still even want to know me knowing I have the capability to be a cheater?\u201d   And the dude\u2019s response is \u201cDon\u2019t think of it as a mistake.  Sometimes two people are just sexually attracted to each other and things happen.\u201d\r\n\r\nI\u2019m fucking floored.   I\u2019m standing there in amazement, and anger\u2026.\r\n\r\nI go back to take care of GC and get her to bed.  She\u2019s drunk and passed out now and doesn\u2019t know I\u2019ve seen or know about any of this.\r\n\r\nI start to think of my options, I could pack up all of my shit and just leave her here.  But, I can\u2019t find my fucking cell phone.  Maybe I left it in the backseat of my boy\u2019s car when I was holding my girl\u2019s head while she was drunk and throwing up out of the door.\r\n\r\nI pack all of my shit, including the sheets on the bed GC is asleep on, by rolling her drunk ass around and taking the sheets straight out from under her.  I pack all of my shit, throw it in the car and just leave.\r\n\r\nI drive back to where my homeboy was parked, but his car is gone.  Damn.\r\n\r\nThen, I just drive around.\r\n\r\nThen, I park and chill.\r\n\r\nPissed off as fuck.  How could she do such a thing?  CHEAT on me?  I can\u2019t believe it.  I\u2019m sitting there chilling\u2026 when her phone rings (I still have hers, since I can\u2019t find mine).    It\u2019s her other friends that are staying with us who are downtown drinking.  I answer it and I\u2019m an ass to them, make them think they have the wrong number.\r\n\r\nThey hang up and call back, they\u2019re asking me the address so they can catch a cab.  I tell it to them.  Then, I figure fuck it, I\u2019m down here I could just take them.  So, I tell them I\u2019ll come pick them up and tell them which corner to meet me at.\r\n\r\nI meet them at the corner and pick them up.  GC\u2019s best friend instantly says, \u201c[Wonka] are you mad?\u201d\r\n\r\nI answer candidly, \u201cyeah\u201d but I don\u2019t go into details.  I decide to just stay the night, and wake up in the morning and go to brunch with my mom like originally planned.  I grab my stuff, including the sheets and pillows I took off of the bed and head back in.  I walk into the room we\u2019re staying in and GC is gone.  I head over to her friend\u2019s bedroom and she points to the closet.\r\n\r\nI open the closet and GC is sitting on the floor looking teary-eyed, \u201cwhy would you leave me?  You took all of your stuff, even the sheets on the bed!\u201d\r\n\r\nAt this point, I snap, \u201cWELL NEXT TIME YOU\u2019RE DRUNK AND STUPID, MAYBE YOU SHOULD MAKE SURE THE OTHER NIGGA YOU\u2019RE FUCKING DOESN\u2019T TEXT YOU WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND HAS YOUR PHONE!!\u201d\r\n\r\nHer face drops\u2026\r\n\r\nOne of her friends says, \u201coh shit, it\u2019s about to get real\u201d and everybody else in the apartment leaves and goes outside.  I walk around a bit and then go back and sit down and just look at GC.\r\n\r\n\u201cI was going to tell you,\u201d she says, \u201cI was waiting until tomorrow\u2026 I wanted to talk about our relationship.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cOk.\u201d  I say and just look at her.\r\n\r\nAt this point, the other people have started to wobble back into the apartment.   \u201cCan we talk about this some other time, not in front of people?\u201d  She asks.\r\n\r\n\u201cYeah\u2026\u201d I say and we leave the room and go into the living room where everybody else is, \u201cWhere is the weed?\u201d  I ask her friend.  I need it.  Too much adrenaline and anger flowing through my body for me to ever go to sleep tonight without some kind of sleep aid.\r\n\r\nEverybody gathers around on the floor and we smoke a few bowls together\u2026 GC lays on her best friend and says, \u201cI\u2019m depressed.\u201d\r\n\r\nAfter a couple of bowls I get up and say I\u2019m going to bed.  Say goodnight to the peeps and head to the room.  GC follows.\r\n\r\nI lay down in the bed and close my eyes.  She lays down and wraps her arms around me and kisses me.  \u201dI\u2019m so sorry.  Do you hate me?\u201d\r\n\r\nI don\u2019t respond.\r\n\r\n\u201cI didn\u2019t mean for it to happen.  I was drunk.\u201d  She says.\r\n\r\n\u201cWhatever\u2026\u201d I say and turn away.  Tears rolling down my face now.  I\u2019m trying to hold them back, but I can\u2019t.\r\n\r\n\u201cBaby\u2026 I didn\u2019t mean to hurt you.  I suck\u201d  she says, and gets teary-eyed too.  \u201dIt\u2019s just that long distance sucks.  I want to be with YOU, but I don\u2019t even feel like I\u2019m with you.  I don\u2019t even feel like I matter to you anymore.  I just felt so lonely, so I started flirting with guys again.  It was just supposed to be flirting.  It wasn\u2019t supposed to go that far.  I was drunk.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cI don\u2019t want to hear your excuses.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cI know.  I fucked up.  I suck.  Do you hate me?\u201d\r\n\r\nI turn away\u2026 I try not to hit her with too many jabs \u2013 no spiteful shit or naming calling \u2013 \u201cyou whore\u201d, \u201cyou slut\u201d \u2013 none of that.  I just express my disappointment.   Tell her that I feel betrayed and that I feel like everything she\u2019s ever told me is bullshit.\r\n\r\nShe continues with the same old \u2013 blaming the situation, saying she didn\u2019t know what I was doing, figured I was probably cheating on her, and continues with the whole \u201cI suck\u201d, \u201cI\u2019m a horrible girlfriend\u201d thing.\r\n\r\nWe\u2019re both crying.  She\u2019s trying to console me, trying to pull me back toward her.  I know it\u2019s my last night with her and that in this emotional state, even though I\u2019m not really turned on, I know it\u2019s going to lead toward sex\u2026. but I also feel like I shouldn\u2019t be the one that initiates it \u2013 not now, not when I\u2019m blaming her for ruining everything.\r\n\r\nSure enough eventually, she pushes up on me and kisses me on the chest and then goes down until she\u2019s got my whole cock down her throat.  She gives me head for awhile and then we fuck again.  It\u2019s only okay this time as I\u2019m not as into it as normal.  When I feel my climax coming, I pull out and move up to aim for her face.\r\n\r\n\u201cOuch!  You got it in my eye!\u201d\r\n\r\nI don\u2019t apologize.  I just roll over and go to sleep.\r\n\r\nWe sleep for a few hours and then I wake her up to take a shower, because we still have brunch plans with my parents before I head to the airport.  When we\u2019re getting dressed, she asks, \u201cwhy does my eye hurt?\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cI don\u2019t know.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cDid you punch me in the eye last night when I was asleep?\u201d she asks.\r\n\r\n\u201cNo.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cLook at it, is it all red?\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cYeah, it looks pretty red.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cOh\u2026 I know why\u201d  She says.\r\n\r\nI smile, just now remembering why\u2026\r\n\r\nWe get dressed and my boy calls.  He found my phone in his backseat.  We meet up with him and grab it and then head over to meet my parents for breakfast.  No emotions, we\u2019re just a regular couple.  My parents don\u2019t suspect anything, they don\u2019t even know it\u2019s their last time seeing her.\r\n\r\nAfter brunch we head out.  I\u2019m driving, but even the 6 cups of coffee I downed at breakfast aren\u2019t keeping me awake.  So, we switch and I let GC drive so I can nap for a bit.\r\n\r\nAfter about a 40 minute nap I wake up and eventually we\u2019re back to talking about our relationship.\r\n\r\n\u201cDo you forgive me?\u201d  She asks.\r\n\r\n\u201cNo.\u201d  I say.\r\n\r\n\u201cSo what do you want to do?\u201d  she ask.\r\n\r\n\u201cAbout us?  We\u2019re over.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cBut I don\u2019t want us to be over.  I love you.\u201d\r\n\r\nWe talk some more, and I drop some real introspective shit.  A lot of good one-liners.  I wish I could remember them.  But, I basically tell her how relationships should work, what the woman\u2019s role is, and that it\u2019s complete bullshit to stray just because you fear the unknown.  I keep telling her that she betrayed us, and what we had.\r\n\r\nShe keeps saying that she sucks, and that she\u2019d understand if I hate her.  She says that she\u2019s never cheated before and that she didn\u2019t mean to hurt me.\r\n\r\nI hit her with some \u201cSo, you\u2019ve never loved anyone as much as you love me, yet I\u2019m the first guy you cheat on?  That makes a lot of fucking sense right there.\u201d\r\n\r\nShe keeps saying that she\u2019s sorry and that she wants to work it out and that we can get passed this.  She asks again, \u201cdo you forgive me?\u201d\r\n\r\nI laugh and say \u201cno.\u201d\r\n\r\nI tell her that we\u2019re over, and when we get to the airport and I walk out of the car, she\u2019ll never hear from me again.\r\n\r\nShe says that we\u2019re not over, that we\u2019ll live in the same city again in the future, I\u2019ll forgive her one day, and we\u2019ll get married and have little zebra children.\r\n\r\nWe\u2019re almost to the airport and she asks me if I want to stop by her sister\u2019s and see her niece and how big she\u2019s gotten.\r\n\r\n\u201cNo.\u201d  I say.\r\n\r\nWe get to the airport and she\u2019s asking me if we can please go somewhere to talk, to spend some more time together, \u201cA coffee shop?  somewhere?\u201d   since my plane doesn\u2019t leave for four hours still.\r\n\r\n\u201cNo, I have to go.\u201d  I say and open my door.  \u201dIt was nice knowing you.  It was a fun year.  Good luck.\u201d\r\n\r\nShe starts crying and grabs me and buries her head into my chest, \u201cNo, baby!  Please!  Please, we can work through this!  I love you!  I want to be with you!\u201d\r\n\r\nI pry her off of me, and again say, \u201cNo, I have to go.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cYou\u2019re going to forgive me!\u201d  she says.\r\n\r\n\u201cNo I won\u2019t.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cI\u2019m going to call you when you get to [my city], and you\u2019re going to answer!\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cNo, I\u2019m not.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cThis isn\u2019t over!\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cYes, it is.\u201d\r\n\r\nI get out of the car and open the trunk and grab my bag and walk into the airport.  I know she sits there for a little while, crying.\r\n\r\nAfter I take a piss, I head to my gate.  Four fucking hours before my plane leaves \u2013 I\u2019ve never been at an airport this early in my whole life.   I pull out my phone and delete my recent calls and all my text messages from GC.   I open my laptop and delete her and all of her friends from my Facebook.\r\n\r\nA couple of hours pass and she sends me four text messages.  First, talking about how she wants to work this out and she\u2019s so sorry.  Then, she\u2019s saying \u201cyou have the option to never talk to me again \u2013 please don\u2019t chose that option.  Please don\u2019t shut me out.\u201d   Then, it\u2019s \u201ccan we at least be friends, you mean too much to me for me to not have you in my life at all.\u201d  I read the texts and instantly delete them.  No reponse.\r\n\r\nWhen I land back in my city I turn on my phone to see two missed calls and a text, \u201cwhy won\u2019t you answer my calls?  Please just talk to me.\u201d\r\n\r\nAgain, I delete the text and go home and go to bed.  Shit is hard though, I\u2019ll be honest.  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I just do, OK?\r\nNO FOOTBALL!\r\n\r\nOne of the more difficult parts of being single is having to field comments and questions from friends and family members who are inexplicably invested in your dating life. One innocuous question in particular can be hurtful, no matter how well-intentioned.\r\n\r\nA friend recently vented to me about her personal pet peeve: she hates when she tells a friend about a really great encounter with a guy, and the person responds with \u201cSo, when are you seeing him again?\u201dAh, yes. The dreaded \u201cSo when are you seeing him again?\u201d Every single person has encountered it. 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She got over it. Both are still alive. And over it.\r\n\r\n\r\n[[https:\/\/emilyforyouuu.com\/ Emilyforyouuu]] PERMALINK\r\nOctober 19, 2009 2:51 pm\r\n\u201cI have heard (briefly) of \u201cThe Rules\u201d and they seem, to me, like Game (sorry, guys, true story), in which, if you follow them letter by letter you are a looohooohooohooooooser. But if you get the idea\u2026well, you get the idea.\u201d\r\n\r\nExactly. As much as followers of Game want to knock it, it\u2019s a way for girls to get what they want the same way they use game to get what they want. Is it 100% foolproof? Of course not. But the same way men use game to filter out women who won\u2019t put out by X date, women will use the rules to filter out men who aren\u2019t serious about them. Following them won\u2019t create attraction where there is none but it will keep you from killing it.\r\n\r\n\r\nLILGRL PERMALINK*\r\nOctober 19, 2009 2:58 pm\r\nOh, another note.\r\n\r\nThere are exceptions. I know I said that before, but THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS. There WILL ALWAYS BE people for whom you should throw out the ol\u2019 rule book. And I don\u2019t mean \u201cThe Rules\u201d book, I mean the figurative book of rules.\r\n\r\nJust like PUAs will tell you, say, to end the call first. So you, a dashing PUA, calls a girl up and OH MY GOD she gets in a car crash while she\u2019s talking to you on the phone and ends the call first (because her cell phone flies out of her hand and smashes into a million pieces at the bottom of a gorge). You failure.\r\n\r\nJust kidding.\r\n\r\nBut, as any person with an IQ over that of an insects will realize, following a set of rules to the letter is pure idiocy. So yeah, there are girls that you boys will break the rules for \u2014 and you\u2019ll not feel like a betaized loser in the process.\r\n\r\nAnd there are boys that we girls will break the rules for, and we\u2019ll not feel like super-easy sluts in the process.\r\n","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2024-12-10","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2024-12-10","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhatMidtermElectionsTaughtUsAboutAttracti","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-10 11:06:22","statut_fiche":"1","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","date_maj_fiche":"2026-02-19 20:35:58","user":"84.233.212.99","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222024-12-10\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222024-12-10\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhatMidtermElectionsTaughtUsAboutAttracti\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-10 11:06:22\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222026-02-19 20:35:58\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?WhatMidtermElectionsTaughtUsAboutAttracti"},"RedefiningRolesAndResponsibilitiesAdapting":{"bf_titre":"Redefining Roles and Responsibilities: Adapting to Change.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DzDL0U He Had an Affair Because I Stopped Initiating Sex]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hiX8sN He Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DJhz4p He Lost Interest in Our Marriage]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hkeh5t Saving A Marriage: He Lost His Job]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ie35sj He Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I\u0027m Sick of It]]\r\n[[https:\/\/training.coursekey.com\/eportfolios\/2543\/Home\/Best_Dating_Websites_to_Find_a_Gay_Sugar_Daddy Best Dating Websites to Find a Gay Sugar Daddy]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FBCVkF Love and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance]]\r\n[[https:\/\/learn.csisafety.com.au\/eportfolios\/3580\/Home\/How_to_Become_a_Sugar_Daddy How to Become a Sugar Daddy]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42ejPd6 Dealing With Your Partner\u2019s Bedroom Confessions]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DL0vLm Can His Squalor Be Squelched?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/lms.escapps.net\/eportfolios\/2196\/Home\/How_to_Choose_a_Sugar_Baby_Website How to Choose a Sugar Baby Website]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iaTwKD Conquering Long Distance Dating]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FBCVBb Coveting a Coworker]]\r\n\r\nFebruary 13, 2012 at 2:56 pm\r\nI always have to wonder about why unhealthy people (even if they\u2019re recovered) choose to be in a relationship with each other. Birds of a feather? Do former addicts attract each other because they have a kind of \u201ckinship\u201d and \u201cunderstanding\u201d that the former addict and someone who\u2019s sober wouldn\u2019t have?\r\n\r\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 4 Thumb down 2\r\n\r\nReply\r\n[[https:\/\/onlykaylaowens.com\/ Onlykaylaowens]] says:\r\nFebruary 13, 2012 at 2:59 pm\r\nLike I said yesterday, there\u2019s really no need to reply to every comment in an attempt to redirect the conversation to you. Seriously. We just got rid of a few people who did that. Stop it. You are over exposed in these threads. You need to cut back on your commenting or I;m just going to moderate you and choose which comments get approved.\r\n\r\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 9 Thumb down 0\r\n\r\nReply\r\nUGH! says:\r\nFebruary 13, 2012 at 12:18 pm\r\nHmm, owning a pet shows commitment? It does to the pet. 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I don\u2019t always answer, but when I don\u2019t, I hear about it the next time I talk to her.\r\n\r\nShe\u2019s always complaining about how I don\u2019t invite her to hang out enough, I don\u2019t call her enough, I don\u2019t respond to her texts, etc.\r\n\r\nIt\u2019s getting annoying.\r\n\r\nAlso, some how I\u2019ve become \u201choney\u201d and \u201cdear\u201d.  I don\u2019t know how that happened.\r\n\r\nAt the same time, when I call her trying to fuck, she balks at the idea.   I think she doesn\u2019t want to feel like a booty call or a fuck buddy.  The only times I\u2019ve fucked her have been after hanging out with like at a concert or a party or something.\r\n\r\nFrustrating.\r\n\r\nIt\u2019s the nagging and sweating me that\u2019s the most frustrating.\r\n\r\nIt makes me want to put her on the ignore, don\u2019t talk to list for a few days\r\n\r\nI was going to do just that, but then she called me at 2am when I was leaving the club the other night.\r\n\r\nI didn\u2019t answer because I was in set at the time, but after that set, I debated whether calling her back or not.  I finally did, on some hope that she was calling me on some booty call type shit.\r\n\r\nShe wasn\u2019t, \u201cYou didn\u2019t text me back last night!  I just wanted to check up on you!\u201d\r\n\r\nI try to go for the booty call.\r\n\r\n\u201cNo, I can\u2019t!  I\u2019m already in bed, sleeping.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cYou\u2019re not sleeping, you\u2019re calling me.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cNo, I really am sleeping, I just called you to check up on you, you didn\u2019t text me back last night and you never called or texted me all day.  You went out and didn\u2019t invite me or anything.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cWhatever, this is booty call time, so you better be talking about a booty call, calling me at this hour.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cNo, I can\u2019t.  I can\u2019t leave my house, I\u2019m already home, my mother wouldn\u2019t like me leaving at 2am to go with you, you know I can\u2019t do that.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cWhatever.  Meet me in 20 minutes.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cNo, I can\u2019t.  I was just calling to check on you.   You should do the gentleman like thing now and tell me goodnight.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cNow that you said that, I\u2019m not saying it.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cGoodbye then.\u201d\r\n\r\nI hang up on her.   I hate that shit.  Trying to tell me what to do.  \u201dYou should say goodnight to me now.\u201d  Fuck that.  I would\u2019ve probably said goodnight to her if she didn\u2019t say that.\r\n\r\nDoesn\u2019t she realize, I never do shit when she tells me to?   You think she\u2019d learn that by now and stop trying.\r\n\r\nIt really pisses me off though.  She\u2019s not being enough of a girl, trying to tell me what to do.  Nagging me when I don\u2019t do what she wants.  Then not doing what I want.   I\u2019m damn near done.   My attraction\/interest in her is falling fast!\r\n\r\nI want to like her, I wanted to try some LTR type of situation, especially to work on my LTR, managing a girl\/relationship game, but she\u2019s really turning me off.\r\n\r\nI may have to pull a \u201cwe need to talk\u201d type of conversation and just letting her know that all this shit she\u2019s been pulling lately is really turning me off.  If she doesn\u2019t start acting more like a fucking girl and chill on sweating me so hard, I\u2019m gone.\r\n\r\nNot sure how she\u2019ll react to such an ultimatum, but I can\u2019t let her get away with this kind of shit.   Just ignoring her to punish her for it doesn\u2019t seem to be working\u2026.\r\n\r\nShe needs to know she\u2019s actually running me off.","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-01-31","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-01-31","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"PerspiringMe","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-31 10:56:15","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-31 10:56:15","user":"74.7.227.150","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-01-31\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-01-31\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022PerspiringMe\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-31 10:56:15\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-31 10:56:15\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?PerspiringMe"},"AGiftForYouMyGems":{"bf_titre":"A gift for you my Gems!","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41V0MU7 Surviving a Long-Term Affair and Saving a Marriage]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iwlwbV Transforming Communication and Parenting in a Troubled Marriage]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c037lm Healing a Marriage by Confronting Insecurities and Building Trust]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kSx1Mh Religious Differences and Strengthening Marriage Bonds]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUogNH The Affection Gap: Bridging Emotional Distance in a Long-Term Marriage]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUohkJ Workplace Dating Detours]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUohRL When Blind Dates Go Wrong]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUoiFj Comfort Vs. 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Granted this is usually how I am anyway as you probably know if you have read my older blogs or \u201cI\u2019m a dumbass sometimes\u201d.\r\n\r\nSo, in an attempt to be better behaved when it comes to sleeping with the wrong kind of guys I have turned to innocent and excessive flirting with casual friends, bloggers, and just about anyone unrelated to me. It\u2019s so much fun! As the holiday season approached I was pretty worried that my resolve wouldn\u2019t hold up but surprisingly it has and I couldn\u2019t be prouder.\r\n\r\nI\u2019ve avoided all sexting, naughty picture sending, and booty calls. YAY for Jewels. With all the wine and alcohol consumption taking place this is just unheard of!!! In replace of naughty real life behavior I will honor a bit of dare that my lovely blog friend Oilfield Trash threw down in his comments section of his most recent blog post. (Do go read it if you haven\u2019t already!) He asked for naked pictures and I told him I had a whole naughty picture folder. He requested one of me wearing a Greek flag...and I don\u0027t have one. I do have a Canadian flag on hand though (which used to hang over my bed...I love hockey that much!) and figured he wouldn\u0027t mind the swap out. He offered (jokingly) to send me his email address and me...being tipsy figured...fuck it...I\u0027m posting it! That\u0027s right guys!\r\n\r\nWhile this isn\u2019t up to par with Rita\u2019s bedroom photos (I had to make due with a webcam and no makeup) or Hazel\u2019s naughty Santa outfit\u2026it\u2019s the best a girl could do tipsy, snowed in, and without breaking out the naughty outfits. Enjoy my semi-tame salute to my great, dirty minded, intelligent readers! J I really do love you all.\r\n\ufeff\r\n\r\nIn lieu of a Greek flag and because I love hockey and all things Canadian...\r\nhere is me naked in a Canadian flag.\r\n\ufeff\r\n\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\r\n\r\nA toast to all my lovely readers....thanks for understanding my drunken posts\r\n and still loving me and possibly loving me more because of them!\r\n\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\r\n\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\r\n\r\nDrinking to your health (physical, mental, and sexual-you\u0027re welcome).\r\n\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\r\n\r\nCheesy and tipsy blowing you all kisses. JUST kisses Drake!!\r\n\r\n\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\ufeff\r\n\r\n\ufeff\r\nHope you enjoyed my tipsy photo session...and here\u0027s to hoping I don\u0027t regret it in the morning. 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Kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131na y\u00fcksek oranlar, \u00e7e\u015fitli promosyonlar ve mobil uygulama deste\u011fi ile g\u00fcvenli ve kesintisiz bir oyun deneyimi sa\u011flar.\r\n----\r\n\r\nJim5 years agoReply\r\nThere are people who have a partner who has no interest. Never had any interest.\r\nAre these people supposed to abandon their kids and partner, just to get some?\r\n\r\nMost woman, when they say no to a married man, they mean he is not attractive enough to justify the offense.\r\n\r\nJust my two cents. \ud83d\ude42\r\n\r\nLoner5 years agoReply\r\nI\u2019ve been married for a decade, and I happen to love Tinder. There\u2019s nothing more inspiring than seeing happy people do things that they love, and learning about new hobbies and vacation destinations!\r\n\r\nI\u2019m happy to chat with friendly people as well, as my wife is rather anti-social and introverted, but, as a previous poster noted, I\u2019m old enough to know that sex with one woman is reasonably similar to sex with another one, so I see no reason to endanger my marriage by cheating on my wife, even if she is a bit lazy.\r\n\r\nI\u2019ve also known plenty of married women who don\u2019t really care what their husbands do, within reason, and I think that modern \u2018merger marriages\u2019 in which the spouses are sexual, emotional, intellectual, and business partners limit the diversity of experiences, and can be quite stultifying.\r\n\r\nanon25 years agoReply\r\nThis experience is very similar to those my friends have had. There are married men and women on Tinder, but the men seems to be more brazen about it and the women sneakier.\r\n\r\n","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-02-25","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-02-25","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhenTheySayNoToAMarriedMan","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-25 10:26:10","statut_fiche":"1","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-04-25 19:26:37","user":"74.7.227.150","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-02-25\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-02-25\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhenTheySayNoToAMarriedMan\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-25 10:26:10\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-04-25 19:26:37\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?WhenTheySayNoToAMarriedMan"},"HappyMonday":{"bf_titre":"Happy Monday","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FVZIYL There\u2019s No Such Thing as a \u201cGood\u201d or \u201cBad\u201d Marriage]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42gjkht A Married Man Needs Only 3 Things From His Wife]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42jsSIT I Am Not The Caretaker of My Marriage]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i743Wl 10 Guilty Pleasures For Couples]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/425v9bN The Man Behind How I Have It All]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jgcuPW 14 Ways Having Kids Affects Your Relationship]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jpgSMN Love Rewards the Brave]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i6g1iQ The Book That Changed the Way I Look at Love]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4coeB2b When Divorce Runs in the Family]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4cmPMDP The Silence That Can Save Your Relationship]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jntAeQ Is It Ever OK to Lie to Your Spouse?]]\r\n\r\nI\u2019m happy to say\u2026 I *think* TC and I are back in the Good Place!\r\n\r\nI had an intimate little cocktail party last night with TC and a dozen of my dearest friends (both guys and girls). He had met a few of them before, so I wasn\u2019t completely throwing him into the (friendly!) fire.\r\n\r\nI was in a bit of a tizzy as I flitted about pouring drinks, prepping food, greeting new people. TC is the perfect party guest \u2013 he has no problem chatting with new people, while checking in with me every so often and helping out. When I saw that he was washing dishes at one point (unasked)\u2026 well, I couldn\u2019t help but fall in \u201clike\u201d with him just a little bit more.\r\n\r\nWe didn\u2019t have a chance to have much alone time, but that should come in the next few days. It was no surprise that my friends thought he was a lovely guy \u2013 he liked them as well.\r\n\r\nAs is often the case with these parties, it was a blur, and I felt that I didn\u2019t have a chance to talk to each person as much as I\u2019d like. However, it was a (re)confirmation that I\u2019m very lucky have a group of fabulous friends \u2013 who (thankfully!) like my cooking.\r\n\r\nAs for TC \u2013 I can\u2019t help but think that he wouldn\u2019t have spent a whole evening with my friends if he didn\u2019t see \u201cus\u201d continuing. For now, I\u2019m OK with letting my doubts of the past week go by the wayside. 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It turned out to be a fabulous date - -and the second one, a week later, was even better. He\u2019s whip-smart \u2013 super-funny \u2013 incredibly cute. To say I\u2019m very mildly smitten wouldn\u2019t be inaccurate \u2013 and from the vibe he\u2019s giving, the feeling seems to be mutual.\r\n\r\nI know \u2013 whoa, Nelly! Yes, yes, I know \u2013 take it slowly, and all that. I certainly am -- or at least, trying. And when he writes to me that he thinks I\u2019m gorgeous and can\u2019t wait to see me again, I\u2019m careful to keep my responses just a bit cooler. I just realized \u2013 we\u2019ve e-mailed every single day since that first date, in addition to texts and phone calls sprinkled in there as well. It just feels \u0022right\u0022.\r\n\r\nCute Jewess just blogged about this recently \u2013 we\u2019ve both had experience with these guys who come on really strong, then fizzle just as quickly. Not to say this new guy will fall into that category \u2013 I\u2019m just being cautious, that\u2019s all.\r\n\r\nBut when someone who seems fabulous also seems to recognize the fabulous in you? Hard not to be a bit seduced by that.\r\n\r\nThird date planned for this weekend, then I\u2019m going out of town for work for a week \u2013 it\u2019s a good thing to be a bit unavailable, and put the brakes on this for the moment.\r\n\r\nI\u2019m having a hard time coming up with a blog name for him! It\u2019s hard to pinpoint just one quality about him. \u201cMr. Wonderful\u201d could work \u2013 but sounds like that\u2019s more of an ironic name for an asshole. Simply \u201cMr. X\u201d? No \u2013 sounds like I\u2019m implying that he is or could be an \u201cex\u201d \u2013 don\u2019t want that! Other references to his great smile, sharp wit, fabulous sense of humor then exclude his other good qualities.\r\n\r\nSo for now \u2013 he\u2019ll simply be 116. (as the 116th first date I\u2019ve had since my last serious relationship) It would be nice if there weren\u2019t any other numbers after that one, wouldn\u2019t it\u2026?\r\n\r\nAs far as the other guys I\u2019ve smooched lately \u2013 I\u2019m not deleting their numbers just yet. We\u2019ve exchanged e-mails, but no solid plans to get together any time soon (I\u2019m too busy anyway). But the fact is, I know that they\u2019re really just smooch-buddies \u2013 if there\u2019s been no progression towards relationship-land with any of them by now (the Friend of a Friend\u2026 Fun Bobby\u2026 Good Hair Guy), then it\u2019s never happening.\r\n\r\nBut 116? Possible potential. 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I knew that was badly disguised code for \u201cI\u2019m not going out with you again unless you give up the goods.\u201d I agreed to nothing.\r\n\r\nHe came back in town about a month after that first date. I had had my limit of the sexy talk and the blatant goal setting he was attempting to do. I bluntly asked him why he was so determined. He bluntly answered why not. I rather bluntly told him it wasn\u2019t ever going to happen. Alas, this story would not be so long if I\u2019d stuck to my guns.\r\n\r\n\r\nWhat The Philosopher didn\u2019t know is that I was pretty raw and vulnerable in those moments, due to other things going on in my life. There was lots of upheaval and I was rapidly reaching ground zero in the stress department. That night I told him how cryptic and weird he was. He told me how evasive I can be. And I don\u2019t even remember what crack I made that did it, but he took it out of text messages and called me up. It was a fascinating conversation, but in the end, he did not get an invite to my place.\r\n\r\nAround 11:30 that night, I needed a Phillips head screwdriver. It was actually a screwdriver emergency, if you can imagine such a thing. It was too late to ask the neighbors for help, and I could only find flat head screwdrivers at the time. I tried to get the job done with those to no avail. I was stressed, I was tired, and I was at my breaking point. I texted The Philosopher and told him if he could produce the needed screwdriver and give me a back massage, he could come over. He was in my house in under an hour.\r\n\r\nHe did indeed have the screwdriver and proceeded to handle my crisis as well as I looked on. He also came through with the lamest backrub I have ever received, but at that point I was just grateful to be taken care of at all. Of course, the backrub moved into the bedroom (to allow him to do a better job, you see) and then clothing started coming off. Yep, we did the deed.\r\n\r\nAnd it was BAD. I mean just\u2026\u2026 bad. He did not do anything that would allow me to get what I needed from the experience. He got all sweaty and started to stink. And inexplicably he kept shoving his thumb in my mouth. After he got his, it was quite late and he decided to spend the night. I was surprised, but gave him back a few points for that. As we all know, spending the night scores big with me.\r\n\r\nThe next morning he woke up feeling as all men do when they wake up. And since I was there, we had a repeat performance. I imagined maybe it would be better. It was not. This time not only did I not get anything, but neither did he. He seemed satisfied with that and rolled away to head to the bathroom. I got up to look for clothing. That\u2019s when it happened.\r\n\r\nThe condom had broken. This might be a crisis under different circumstances, but there are two important things to note here. One is that he didn\u2019t finish. Two is that I am on birth control. There was literally next to no chance of any danger from this. I went down the hall to root around in a closet and heard him call from the bathroom \u201cHow do you feel about abortion?\u201d\r\n\r\nNow, it was early. I was tired and unhappy with my experience with him. And as we already covered, The Philosopher frequently asks such questions out of the blue without reason. So, without thinking twice, I answered honestly. (For the record? I believe in a woman\u2019s right to choose, but I\u2019m pretty sure I would exercise that right by not getting one.) This was not the correct answer. What followed was a large scale panic attack on his part. I repeatedly explained all of the variables working in his favor. I told him over and over that I simply wasn\u2019t pregnant. I swore on whatever I thought would matter to him. Finally I simply promised I would let him make the decision if there were one to make and shoved him out the door.\r\n\r\nHe text messaged several times in the coming week or so. All concerns about my impossible pregnancy. I told him when my girly time was due and promised to alert him as soon as there was definitive proof of my lack of baby. Finally, in a last ditch effort to shut him up, I texted him with \u201cI promise to abort your hypothetical baby!\u201d He fell silent at last. And true to my word, when the monthly visitor arrived, I let him know immediately. He thanked me and disappeared.\r\n\r\nSince then, he has called every single time he comes into town. I have not seen him since that morning when I shooed him out of my house. I have told him I\u2019m busy. I have told him his booty calls are transparent. (which, by the way, led to him calling me inexplicably on his way to IOWA to prove he was not doing exactly what he was in fact doing.) I have told him I have no time for him. I have even flat out ignored text messages and voicemails. Still, he calls. He called this week. I did not answer. I never will.\r\n\r\nHopefully, that is the end of this story. If not, next time I will tell him the sex was bad and I\u2019m never going to sleep with him again. 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There are other ways you can learn to stand up to social pressure (check out BradP\u2019s \u201cSocial Freedom Exercises\u201d, it\u2019s a program that forces you do put yourself in situations that will socially pressure you, and you escalate it over time and build that ability to not cave to it\u2026also the exercises generally won\u2019t get you killed in an alley outside of a country bar lol).\r\n\r\nSo I wouldn\u2019t recommend hanging out with the guy much because 1) there\u2019s a decent chance of getting your ass kicked compared to other things you could do, 2) usually guys with his attitude are the types who are also ready to throw down and scrap if something bad went down and I\u2019m not a fighting type at all so I just avoid that kind of vibe entirely because those guys expect me to back them up and I\u2019m like \u201cum no, how about you just don\u2019t get into a fight in the first place like a normal human being, thanks\u201d, and 3) were any of the girls there the type of girls you even WANT? lol A 5 spouting off about nigger dicks? ehhh, I\u2019d rather approach a smokin hot 9 and force myself to handle the social pressure of staring down a gorgeous hottie, you know?\r\n\r\n\u201c\u2018if you can successfully control yourself and \u2014 somehow \u2014 turn around a situation where people just fucking hate you on principle\u2026.what can stop you?\u2019\u201d\r\n\r\nlol this is true as a concept. It\u2019s just his execution is a little insane. :) Like you could learn to fight by just picking street fights outside bars every night\u2026or you could go train in a gym fighting with sparring equipment. The end result gets you to a similar point, but one way is a pretty insane way of going about it, and the other is a little more appealing to me, personally.\r\n\r\n\u201cI had literally NO CLUE how to fucking handle it.\u201d\r\n\r\nlol ya, that was the whole point of it. Trail by fire basically. Thing is down the road when your game is more solid and you\u2019re used to handling group dynamics and shit-tests etc. in GENERAL, you could go back to this place and probably own it like a champ like Ted. But you\u2019re still building on the basics right now lol Like you\u2019re learning the mechanics of how to throw a punch properly, before stepping into the ring to fight.\r\n\r\n","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-27","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-27","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TrailByFireBasically","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-27 16:48:26","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-27 16:48:26","user":"17.22.253.193","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-27\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-27\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TrailByFireBasically\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-27 16:48:26\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-27 16:48:26\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?TrailByFireBasically"},"MsNostalgia":{"bf_titre":"Ms. Nostalgia","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j6gN0p How a Meddling Mother Nearly Ruined My Marriage]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iU3Cj0 How We Rebuilt Our Marriage Through Therapy]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Z9CjH Saving a Marriage After an Affair]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Z9DUN Can Marriage Survive Infidelity?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j5u3lZ Is Your Marriage a Partnership or a Prison?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4l6wdng Keep Him From Walking Out That Door]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j4unBq Managing Expectations in Dating]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j4upcw Why I Believe In Marriage]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j21Jkq Dating Advice From Happily Married Couples]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j4dFSB The Man or the Money]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/421UmCz Walk Away From Parental Control in Relationships]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iZu4rt When You\u2019re Stuck in the \u201cCasual Dating\u201d Zone]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j3RWKI A Necessary Courtesy or Just Overkill in Online Dating?]]\r\n\r\nIt\u2019s taken a while to settle into my non-expatriate life, and blogging hasn\u2019t been on my list of priorities lately. And, quite frankly, I\u2019ve had a hard time finding my blogging mojo.\r\n\r\nWords seemed to flow pretty freely for me on the other side of the Atlantic, and now that I\u2019m back in my own country, I guess I\u2019m eager to start anew, and blogging seems to be something that my subconscious associates with my former life as a foreigner in France.\r\n\r\nBut for your sakes, dear readers, I am determined to overcome this subconscious block.\r\n\r\nSo to kickstart my new bloggerific life on this side of the Atlantic, I\u2019ve decided to publish a list of all the things I miss about dating in France \u2014 all those elusive, intangible things that I took for granted while I was there.\r\n\r\nReady?\r\n\r\nThings I miss about dating in France:\r\n\r\n\u2026\r\n\r\n\u2026\u2026\r\n\r\n\u2026\u2026\u2026\r\n\r\n\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026 Nothing.\r\n\r\nYou know that saying, \u201cThe grass is always greener on the other side\u201d?\r\n\r\nThat\u2019s a load of crap.\r\n\r\nThe grass is greener on THIS side, folks.\r\n\r\nLet\u2019s face it. If you\u2019ve been long-time followers of Man-shopping in Paris, you must be convinced as I that there is nowhere to go but onward and upward from there.\r\n\r\nStay tuned. As soon as I get around to changing the above header to \u201cMan-shopping in DC\u201d, mayhem \u00e0 la man-shoppeuse will continue to grace your internets.\r\n\r\nMake no mistake, I am still as bat-crap mad as ever.\r\n\r\nBut trust me, I\u2019m also still as delightful as ever, and I am ready to rumble.\r\n\r\nThe poor american lads will have no idea what\u2019s in store for them.","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-26","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-26","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"MsNostalgia","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-26 16:29:41","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-26 16:29:41","user":"17.241.227.220","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-26\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-26\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022MsNostalgia\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-26 16:29:41\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-26 16:29:41\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?MsNostalgia"},"PlayingTheGameWithTextPals":{"bf_titre":"Playing the Game with Text Pals","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/409zNDg A Relationship Evolved (and Happy Birthday To My Ex)]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40bPOst The Unforgettable First Kiss]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PAH1LA Jealousy Versus Envy]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WiZNuP Love Addict: The Pregnancy Dilemma]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ivhCi How Do You Help Someone Who Doesn\u2019t Want Help?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DX2xHZ Most Radical Relationship Books On the Market]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40esfPF We Hold Ourselves Back]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ivdCy What Happens When You Actually In Relationship??]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/407JTV2 Is a Same-Sex Encounter Important in Living Holistically?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PDYJ0E You\u2019re a Selfish Bitch and That\u2019s Why You\u2019re Not Married]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40bPOIZ Learning How to Love Yourself]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cb2Det Love Addict: Writing the Personal]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PBlPFw How Do You Learn to Let Go?]]\r\n\r\nIn the age before the internet and cell phones that had texting capabilities there was something called \u201cpen pals\u201d. This was back when people still wrote letters to people, and having a real pen pal was cool. I remember I always wanted one from France so I could practice my poor French skills I learned from watching Canadian Sesame Street. But of course that never happened because I never knew how to get in touch with someone from France in the pre-internet days.\r\n\r\nThen\u2026the birth of the internet. I began to find real pen pals across the country. Sure, they were most likely old men stalkers, but hey, I\u2019m still alive now so I guess it all worked out in the end.\r\n\r\nThen came the birth of the text message and the next wave of pen pals: TEXT PALS. At first text pals were the friends that lived across the country or too far away to see every day. But soon that turned into what we have today. Text pals are friends that live down the street from us. Text pals are guys we\u2019re dating. Text pals are guys we don\u2019t like. Text pals are exes and\/or booty calls.\r\n\r\nAnd let me just tell you. That has turned into an annoying new dating trend: the quasi dating TEXT PAL. In other words, guys who you dated for awhile but who can\u2019t commit to anything more yet don\u2019t want to let you think you\u2019re free yet. They want the option to be able to date other people, but don\u2019t want to have to give you up as an option. So they string you along so that you can\u2019t ever completely move on.\r\n\r\nThey are out there dating, exploring their options, having sex. And you, the emotional girl is left feeling guilty about dating other guys because twice a week you get a text message from your TEXT PAL.\r\n\r\nAnd here is how his game is played:\r\n\r\nAnnoying text pal: \u201chey you, how\u2019s it going?\u201d Point for TP: 15 love.\r\n\r\nYOU: \u201cit\u2019s okay, i had a bad day at work. how are you?\u201d Point for YOU: 15 all.\r\n\r\nTP: \u201cokay cool, well hope you feel better soon\u201d Point for TP: 30-15.\r\n\r\nYOU: WTF? How do I respond to that? So then you end up saying something that requires no response, just so you are the last one to text. Which of course will mean the ball is in his court. \u201cthanks \u2018:)\u2019\u201d Point for YOU: 30 all.\r\n\r\nAnd then\u2026.\r\n\r\nTP: \u201cnp\u201d Point for TP: 40-30 and then \u201c:)\u201d\r\n\r\nPoint for TP and that is game. set. match.\r\n\r\nAnother example from my girlfriend:\r\n\r\nTP: \u201cwhat are your plans this weekend?\u201d (as an aside, I just have to comment about how evil this one is because we are fully expecting you to plan a date now)\r\n\r\nGIRL: \u201cnot much, might go out of town on Sunday\u201d\r\n\r\nTP: \u201cyeah i\u2019ve been thinking about getting out of town lately\u201d\r\n\r\nGIRL: What does this mean? This is clearly not an invite for a date\u2026is he asking to join me on my trip? I better go the safe route. \u201cyeah sometimes LA can be such a drag\u201d\r\n\r\nTP: \u201ci hear you\u201d\r\n\r\nAt this point he has clearly won. And now you are left hanging with this feeling of not knowing what actually took place in that conversation. Did you say something wrong? Why did he text in the first place? Shit! Now he knows I have nothing going on this weekend! Was he just checking up on me? Or was it a \u201cdon\u2019t forget I\u2019m here\u201d thing so that you have that on your conscience when you hook up with some random guy this weekend.\r\n\r\nNext time, we will be wiser. We are tired of losing every game and it\u2019s our turn to win. Here is the winning strategy:\r\n\r\nGIRL: (in response to any text message from TP) \u2026\u2026[insert answer to question here], why, what\u2019s up?\r\n\r\nThis is how it works:\r\n\r\nTP: \u201chey you still out of town?\u201d\r\n\r\nGIRL: \u201cnope, why what\u2019s up?\u201d (notice here that using \u201cnope\u201d instead of \u201cno\u201d is much more whatever, I don\u2019t care type of attitude)\r\n\r\nTP: \u201cnot much, just hanging out\u201d\r\n\r\nGIRL: \u201ccool \u2018:)\u2019\u201d\r\n\r\nDid you notice that subtle power shift? That means the game is finally YOURS.\r\n\r\nAnd by the way, I am not limiting this to work with guys. This is just from my perspective. So if you guys out there have an annoying girl TP, then this would work in the same way. ;)\r\n\r\nNow go play and knock those annoying TEXT PALS out of the game!","bf_description1":"","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-16","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-16","bf_text":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"PlayingTheGameWithTextPals","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-16 10:47:42","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","checkboxListeStructuresbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTerritoirebf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeAxesThematiquesbf_checkbox_group":"","checkboxListeTypeDEvenementbf_checkbox_group":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-16 10:47:42","user":"17.246.19.77","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-16\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-16\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022PlayingTheGameWithTextPals\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-16 10:47:42\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-16 10:47:42\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/www.territoires-a-vivres.xyz\/?PlayingTheGameWithTextPals"}}